About Me

I am Mistress Ricarda. An elegant, strict, and primal Dominatrix based in London, bred in Germany, born in NYC, with a background in dance, performance and visual art.

My domination is psychological and physical in equal measure. Years of dance shaped how I move, how I read bodies, how I dominate. Posture, breath, the tiny shifts that give you away. I find the fault lines in your confidence and press, calmly and precisely, until your composure cracks.

I have a sadistic side. I play the long game: mapping your mind, finding exactly where to press, then taking you apart. Thoroughly. I like the moment you realise how much I've seen, how little you can hide, and how far past your limits I intend to go.

I love humiliation - not random, but surgical. Stripping you down to the truth of what you are. Saying the words you've never heard out loud. Watching you flush and squirm while I decide whether you've earned the right to look at me. I make approval feel like oxygen. Then I take it away.

There is a feral streak in me, too. I enjoy circling, testing, getting closer; hands, voice, the weight of my body when I pin you still. The moment you realise you are no longer in charge of the pace.

I don't perform dominance. I take it. And I expect you to meet me with seriousness, respect, and the willingness to be shaped.

How to Obey

Online Domination

In-Person Domination

I typically work from professional dungeons and discreet venues. For well-screened submissives, I may consider high-end hotel visits.

Themes and activities may include:

• Psychological domination & sensual humiliation

• Primal physical control (pinning, trampling, being overpowered)

• German-style strict high protocol obedience training

• Face slapping, kicking, light–medium impact play

• Objectification: carpet, furniture, footstool, display piece

• Foot & leg worship (heels, boots, stockings, bare feet)

• Rituals, roleplay, and creature-queen dynamics

– Each session is crafted around my tastes first. You may express your interests; I decide how and whether they fit my pleasure.

Not everyone can kneel at my feet in person. For those who still ache to be under my influence, I offer online domination:

• Video sessions (short, intense, highly focused)

• Task-based rituals and humiliating assignments

• Ongoing distance control – structure, rules, and accountability

Online, my focus remains psychological: control, structure, humiliation, training your mind and behaviour around my preferences.

Selected Disciplines

• Bondage

• Bimbo-fication

• Boot Worship

• Breath Control

• CBT, Ballbusting

• Chastity

• Corporal Punishment

• Foot Worship

• Feminisation & Sissification

• Heavy bondage

• Humiliation

• Impact play (Spanking, caning, flogging)

• Pegging & Anal Play

• Puppy Play

• Public Degradation

• Spitting

• Sissy-play

• Tease & Denial

• Watersports

– This is not a checklist. You may state interests; I decide what I use.

• Apply to Serve — Send a concise message with: age, location, availability, experience level, and what you’re seeking.

• Screening — Required before any confirmation. I am selective and respond only to serious applicants.

• Tribute — Agreed in advance. Tribute confirms time, attention, and intent.

• Discretion — Expected. My privacy is not negotiable.

• Consent & limits — Boundaries are discussed clearly. I reserve the right to refuse any request.

Beyond the Session — Bespoke Engagements

For select submissives, my company can be earned outside the dungeon: shopping trips where you carry, pay, and stay quiet; long dinners where the dynamic stays between us; cultural outings or travel where you accompany at a discreet distance. These are not sessions in lingerie — they are extensions of my influence into public, where the discipline is more subtle and the privilege of being seen with me is the point.

Rates are bespoke and agreed in advance, scaled to duration, setting, and travel. Screening is more selective than for session work.

Tribute & Rates

My time, presence and energy are valuable. I see fewer men, at a higher level of seriousness. Screening is required. A deposit is agreed in advance and secures time and attention. Dungeon fees apply upon agreement.

Core Sessions

• 1 Hour Discipline — £250
  A focused, intense introduction to my world.

• 90 Minute Ritual — £400
  More space for psychological build-up, impact and worship.

• 2 Hour Immersion — £500
  Deep, layered session: ritual, humiliation, service and control.

• 3 Hour Intensive Immersion — £750

  The fullest version of my work: I take my time, and I take everything.

Distance Control (Online)

• Daily Tasks (text/email) — from £150/week

• 30 min Video Session — £130

• Ongoing Control Package — from £400/month

Rates may vary depending on complexity, location and special requests. Tribute is always agreed in advance.